Screening
The one step new clients find out about too late — usually inside the form, on the third step. It is short, it is the same for everyone, and it is worth knowing about beforehand.
Why it exists
I meet strangers alone, in private, on their terms. Screening is what makes that possible without either of us guessing. It is not a background check and it is not a test — it establishes that you are who you say you are, which is exactly what you want established about me before you arrive.
What counts
Any one of these is enough. Pick whichever is least effort for you — they carry the same weight with me.
- 01
Reference from another companion
The fastest route by some distance. Her name and roughly when you met is all I need; I contact her, not you, and she confirms or she does not.
- 02
Professional profile (LinkedIn)
A LinkedIn URL where the role and employer are visible. I do not connect, message, or leave a trace on your profile.
- 03
Employer & role (verbal)
Company and title, verified through a public directory or a switchboard call that never names me or the reason.
- 04
Directory reference (P411 / Tryst / Eros)
A P411, Tryst or Eros handle with history on it. Membership is the verification; I check the profile, nothing more.
- 05
Brief video call
Two or three minutes, camera on, no recording of any kind. The usual choice for anyone who cannot afford a written trail.
- 06
Other — explain below
If none of these fit your situation, say so and describe what you can offer. I have said yes to arrangements not on this list.
How long it takes
A day, usually less. A companion reference is often confirmed within the hour. Nothing about the meeting is settled until screening clears, so the sooner it starts the sooner we are talking about dates.
What happens to what you send
It reaches me by email and stays with your introduction in a private record — not published, not shared, not sold, and never used for anything except verifying this one meeting. References are contacted about you and never told anything about you.
You can have the whole record deleted at any point, before or after we meet — ask here and it is done within thirty days, usually within seven.
What I never ask for
- Your legal name, unless the method you chose already carries it
- A photograph of you or of your ID
- Your home address
- Payment details of any kind — deposits are arranged separately, after we have agreed on a date
If we have met before
Then none of this applies. Say so in the form and it skips the step entirely.
Begin an introductionScreening happens inside the form. It takes about a minute to reach it.